After acceptance of Shaadi.com request, we started to talk from 13th November 2016 via whatsapp. Initially we just asked very simple questions like name, native place, gotra, job profile, hobbies and interests and expectations for life partner and all. We fulfilled each other's criteria and started discussions more deeply and tried to know each other from inside and outside and tried to find out ki hum ek dusre ko jhel sakte hain k nahi :p . I was very clear in my mind that I need a well educated jaat guy and simple, humble, caring, supportive, loving and loyal person and he was the same as i expected. There were some minor expectations which didn't match but i gave importance to the major things. He needed a well educated jaat girl, loyal, straightforward, adventurous girl and he found all these qualities in me. We didn't get in love with each other initially but we liked each other. I was very much clear that i'll love that person only whom I'll marry. So, he asked me once whether i love him or not and i clearly said No and said but i'll love you more than anything if we'll get confirm that we are going to marry for sure. He always liked that i never lie. I said yes to him on 15th December 2016. So, we talked to our parents and they got agreed and then wedding rituals got started. After some time i started loving him and gave my best to make our relationship best. On the other side he also started loving me and gave his best to make our relationship best. I clearly told him my ambitions of life and which type of life i wanted to live and he also cleared me his expectations. Finally we realized that we are for each other and we can't get better half than each other. Then we got married on 29th April 2017 and one new life began with lots of love, care and adventure. We give more importance to each other rather than ourselves. we are living a very happy life with each other. P.S: Shaadi.com is just a platform to make you meet a person of your choice, rest is upto you how you can make utilize this platform and make your life best. Don't think all fake people are on Shaadi.com because same problem exist in real world too. It's all depend on you how you manage everything. So, don't blame Shaadi.com if you don't get person of your choice. it's a platform,not a magic. P.P.S: To find a genuine life partner for yourself first you need to clear your mind what you exactly wants in a person and what you don't want. And remember, nobody is perfect in this world. So, you may need to leave somethings. Just prioritize your expectations and give your best and be ready to get change, you may also need to change a bit to make your relation best. Transparency, Straightforwardness, loyalty, clarification of thoughts in your mind are more important qualities which you need to have to search a better half for you from millions of people on this earth. Love will automatically happen if people will be good enough. so, don't misunderstand this fact that first you'll get in love with each other and then you'll marry. It's just my perception, rest depends on person to person.