Short Version:
I personally believe, a little attraction is important at the beginning and then it's important to take some time to know each other. If there is enough organic connection you will find ways to make things work irrespective of where you are in your life at this time. I would like to be with some one who is willing to stay fully committed with me and actually wants to grow together. Life becomes way more interesting when we support each other in the pursuit of what we want to become, with what we have.
I would prefer to have genuine warm conversations when we connect.
I would prefer if you write something that describes your personality as a person.
US Visa Status:
1. On H1B.
2. PERM is filed under EB2, would most likely have i140 approved in 2024.
3. I am in process of building my profile to qualify for EB1.
If you do decide to connect, please send answers to below questions.
1. What are... more some of your personal values in life?
2. What's the nicest thing you have ever done for another person?
3. What are 3 things you would like to change in this world?
Long Version:
Hi there,
First of all, a big thumbs-up for your search for the right life partner; I understand how incredibly hard it can get!
It's imperative to make this life-changing decision very carefully and thoughtfully.
A brief history:
I grew up in India for first 25 years, then moved to US in 2014 for higher studies to pursue an ambition to build something of value.Worked for three years in US after my graduation in 2016.Unfortunately could not get work visa in all 3 attempts(2017, 2018, 2019) of lottery. So had to move out of USA in 2019. Moved to Toronto, Canada in 2019. Worked for same employer as US from 2019-2022 and now I am back in USA on H1B in 2022. I do hold Canadian Permanent Residency, but not very sure to settle down in Canada. Mostly its USA/India to settle down.
About me:
I believe in a purposeful life which elevates not only you but also the people around you. I am a dreamer and like to have a goal to drive my career. Alongside working towards my goal, I find happiness in the little joys of life. I love to host close friends for occasional dinners, play poker, talk about life. I love traveling(planning/bookings about travel is also very joyful to me). I am in love with Aurora borealis(Northern lights); I make sure to visit them whenever I get chance.Traveling is an experience for me, it helps me discover more of myself and develop perspective. So I am a little big on this aspect of life. I like cooking and I am a decent cook, although my cooking skills credit goes to my mother, friends and youtube. I like to walk on the beach barefoot. I like to hike to see a beautiful place. I like to give back to community, help someone in need. I like to take initiatives for things I want or are important. I am funny but also a deep thinker at times and likes to blog about life lessons/experiences and things related to my craft. The most recent personality test described me as ENFJ-A(Protagonist) person, with 65% Extraverted and 35 % Introverted.
About you:
I hope to find someone who i can vibe with, who respects and support individual choices, opinions and can take disagreements positively. Someone who is open-minded, mature, progressive in thinking and confident. I prefer someone who is headstrong and knows how to be happy. I would like someone who can handle a healthy discussion and light-hearted jokes, someone I can travel the world with, having the same or more enthusiasm as me! If you love dancing, I would like to learn from you.
Something I am working on:
I am trying to establish a very healthy and fitness routine that leads to productive and happy life.
I am slowly trying to move from a non-vegetarian diet to a vegetarian diet, and eventually
want to shift to a vegetarian diet. I do not have any reservation for you, if you are vegetarian
or non-vegetarian.
There is more to me:
Although, my story might seem fairly smooth from the outset, there is lot to it. If you are interested, I am open to share it and interested in hearing yours.
Life Goal:
At the end, I would like to make my life revolve around 4 stages.
1. Survival - When I am surviving to make a living.
2. Security - When I am able to pay bills.
3. Success - When I have what I want, not what I need.
4. Significance - When I am able to help others in such a way that makes impact in their life.
Family:
My immediate family have both parents, one brother and possibly you and your family? ;) ;
My father did mechanical engineering from IIT Roorkee(Known as University of Roorkee previously)and retired as general manager from ONGC in 2019;
My mother did BA arts from Agra University and she is homemaker and is still working ;);
My younger brother did engineering from Gujarat University and now works for Bank of Baroda.
Education:
I have done MS in Computer Science from University of Southern California,Los Angeles and BTech in Computer Science from DR. M.G.R University,Chennai.
Career:
I started my career after completing my under-grad in 2011 and worked for SAP Labs, Amazon and Samsung in India. I pursued my Master's degree (2016) in US and worked/interned at Walmartlabs and Intuit. Currently I work for eBay. I am very passionate Coder/Builder/Programmer and enjoy building things that matter.And yes, I love what I do.