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Short Version

I personally believe, a little attraction is important at the beginning and then it's important to take some time to know each other. If there is an enough organic connection you will find ways to make things work irrespective of where you are in your life at this time. I would like to be with some one who is willing to stay fully committed with me and actually wants to grow together.
I would prefer if you write something that describes your personality as a person.

If you do decide to give a shot, please send answers to below questions.
1. What's your favorite thing about yourself?
2. What's the nicest thing you have ever done for another person?
3. What is your view on modern day feminism?

Long Version

Hi there,


First of all, a big thumbs-up for your search for the right life partner; I understand how incredibly hard it can get!
It's imperative to make this... more life-changing decision very carefully and thoughtfully.

I grew up in India, was in California, US from 2014 to mid 2019 and have moved to Toronto, Canada in July 2019 on permanent residency. I will move back to California in early 2021 depending on how US visa processing work out.Settling down in US or Canada or India, will be on mutual decision. Although at this time, I am currently inclined towards US more.

I believe in a purposeful life which elevates not only you but also the people around you. I am a dreamer and like to have a goal to drive my career. Alongside working towards my goal, I find happiness in the little joys of life. I love to host close friends for occasional dinners, play poker, talk about life. I love traveling(planning/bookings about travel is also very joyful to me). I am in love with Aurora borealis(Northern lights); I make sure to visit them whenever I get chance.Traveling is an experience for me, it helps me discover more of myself and develop prespective. So I am a little big on this aspect of life. I like cooking and I am a decent cook, although my cooking skills credit goes to my mother, friends and youtube. I like to walk on the beach barefoot. I like to hike to see a beautiful place. I like to give back to community, help someone in need. I like to take initiatives for things I want or are important. I am funny but also a deep thinker at times and likes to blog about life lessons/experiences and things related to my craft. The most recent personality test described me as ENFJ-A(Protagonist) person, with 65% Extraverted and 35 % Introverted.

I hope to find someone who is open-minded, mature, liberal and confident; while being somewhat idiosyncratic at times. I prefer someone who is headstrong and knows how to be happy. I would like someone who can handle a healthy discussion and light-hearted jokes; someone I can travel the world with, having the same or more enthusiasm as me! If you love dancing, I would like to learn from you. Honestly, I am a very bad at it, though I dance on the tennis and ping pong court.


I am slowly trying to move from a non-vegetarian diet to a vegeterian diet, and eventually
want to shift to a vegeterian diet. I do not have any reservation for you, if you are vegeterian
or non-vegeterian.


Although, my story might seem fairly smooth from the outset, there is lot to it. If you are interested, I am open to share it and interested in hearing yours.

At the end, I would like to make my life revolve around 4 stages.
1. Survival - When I am surviving to make a living.
2. Security - When I am able to pay bills.
3. Success - When I have what I want, not what I need.
4. Significance - When I am able to help others in such a way that makes impact in their life.

Family:My immediate family have both parents, one brother and possibly you and your family? ;) ;
My father did mechanical engineering from IIT Roorkee(Known as University of Roorkee previously)and retired as general manager from ONGC in 2019;
My mother did BA arts from Agra University and she is homemaker and is still working ;);
My younger brother did engineering from Gujarat University and now works for Bank of Baroda.

Education:I have done MS in Computer Science from University of Southern California,Los Angeles and BTech in Computer Science from DR. M.G.R University,Chennai.

Career:I started my career after completing my under-grad in 2011 and worked for SAP Labs, Amazon and Samsung in India. I pursued my Master's degree (2016) in US and worked/interned at Walmartlabs and Intuit. Currently I work for eBay. I am very passionate Coder/Builder/Programmer and enjoy building things that matter.And yes, I love what I do.